How to Help Someone After Unexpectedly Losing a Loved One
Although loved ones naturally pass on in the circle of life, among those who die a sudden death, either through homicide, suicide, or accident, the shock is unbearable for family members and close friends. Compassionately easing a loved one through the loss of someone who is unexpectedly snatched away from life takes skill. Good intent alone is insufficient enough to help the mourner through this incredibly painful life experience.
The state of complete shock as a result of a loved one’s unexpected death may continue for some time. At first, the reality of a violent death may remain unacceptable. This normal coping mechanism shields the family members from experiencing the extreme emotional trauma associated with the murder, suicide or fatal accident. Slowly, over time, family members s...